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From Reactive Patterns to Relational Purpose
by Anneriek Favelle
Transforming How You Love, Together is the workbook for couples ready to stop talking about their patterns and start changing them. Drawing on Relational Life Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and Somatic practice, therapist Anneriek Favelle guides you through a five-stage journey—from understanding the unconscious dynamics driving your conflicts to building a partnership that genuinely inspires you both.
Why do you keep having the same fight? Why does your partner know exactly how to trigger you? And why—despite loving each other—do you sometimes feel like you're speaking different languages?
Transforming How You Love, Together answers these questions not with theory, but with practical tools you can use today. This workbook guides couples through a five-stage journey of transformation: from understanding the unconscious patterns driving your conflicts to building something that genuinely inspires both of you.
This isn't another book about communication tips or fighting fair. Those approaches treat symptoms. The real work isn't about changing your partner—it's about understanding yourself: your wounds, your reactions, your protective patterns. The friction in your relationship isn't a flaw. It's a mirror, showing you the places still asking to be healed. And it doesn't stop at healing what hurts. It guides you toward shared vision, meaningful rituals, and a legacy worth leaving—because a relationship isn't just a problem to solve, it's a vehicle for becoming who you're meant to be.
Whether you're just moving in together, navigating the chaos of young family life, weathering the midlife reckoning, or rediscovering each other beyond, this book meets you where you are. Every concept comes with worksheets, assessments, and exercises designed to move you from "that's interesting" to "that's ME—and here's what I'm going to do about it."
Drawing on Terry Real's Relational Life Therapy, Internal Family Systems, EFT, Somatic approaches, and ACT, therapist Anneriek Favelle translates decades of wisdom into something you can actually use. Not someday. Today.
Every rupture is an invitation. Every trigger is information. Every conflict is a chance to heal something old and choose something new.
The only question is: are you willing to do the work?
Anneriek Favelle is a therapist specialising in couples work, integrating Relational Life Therapy (RLT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Somatic approaches. She works with individuals and couples at Inner Growth Therapy in New South Wales, Australia.
Therapist, Author, and Sense-maker
Anneriek Favelle is a therapist, author, and perpetual sense-maker. Born in the Netherlands, she landed in Australia after the sudden loss of a dear friend shook her awake to the truth that life is too short to play it safe. She has an almost compulsive need to create structure out of chaos. Give her a tangle of therapeutic frameworks, the swirling complexity of human relationships, or a life transition that feels overwhelming — and she won't rest until she's organised it into something clear, practical, and usable. Writing is how she thinks — how she processes what she's learning and translates the profound into the practical. Her books span the territories she knows intimately: grief and self-discovery after loss, the messy work of relationships, helping boys grow into the men they actually want to be, and the transformation that comes when women reclaim their power. Each one exists because she couldn't find what she needed on the shelf — so she researched and wrote it. Today, Anneriek lives in Sydney with her husband and their two sons — both of whom unknowingly contributed to the writing of Secrets of the Round Table. She runs Inner Growth Therapy, where she works with individuals and couples. She is a certified Level 3 Relational Life Therapist and a Level 2 Internal Family Systems therapist, with additional qualifications in Counselling, Somatic and Dance Movement Therapy, Yoga, and Meditation.
Embracing the Natural Power and Wisdom of Menopause
A modern menopause guide that blends medical research with somatic wisdom — and reclaims the woman menopause was supposed to silence.
Redefining Masculinity for Teen Boys
Secrets of the Round Table is the book nobody handed you. It's about emotions, confidence, friendships, sex, mental health, your brain, and the kind of man you actually want to become — written like a conversation, not a lecture.
Poems for your Soul
A journey of growth and awakening, told in verse.
This is a companion for anyone walking their own path of self-discovery—an invitation to sit with your shadows, honour your softness, and remember the power that has been yours all along.