Dennis S. Nickens
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Dennis S. Nickens
It's Ok To Be Selfish
by Dennis Nickens
Healing, Wholeness, and Identity Before "I Do"
In a culture that glorifies relationships and pressures people to “find someone” fast, Singlehood: It’s OK to Be Selfish is a bold and necessary declaration: before you give yourself to someone else, it's okay—and essential—to focus on yourself.
Dennis Nickens delivers a transparent, faith-rooted, and empowering guide for anyone navigating life as a single person. Whether you're healing from heartbreak, growing through a season of self-discovery, or intentionally waiting for a purpose-aligned partner, this book challenges the idea that being single is something to escape.
Instead, Dennis reframes singlehood as a sacred season—one filled with opportunity, clarity, and preparation. He invites readers to embrace this time to rediscover their identity, restore their emotional health, and reset their standards—not out of selfishness, but out of self-awareness and self-worth.
Inside the book, you’ll learn how to:
Break free from cycles of codependency, fear, or low self-esteem
Develop spiritual maturity and emotional intelligence as an individual
Set and enforce healthy relationship boundaries
Understand the difference between loneliness and divine solitude
Love yourself fully so you can love others well later
This isn’t just a book—it’s a personal revolution. Singlehood: It’s OK to Be Selfish gives you permission to focus inward so when the time comes to love outward, you're doing it from a place of strength and purpose.
You’re not broken. You’re becoming. And this season is for you.
Dennis Nickens, also known as Spiritual Romeo, is a faith-based relationship consultant, speaker, and author dedicated to helping people grow in purpose, identity, and love. Through powerful books and real-world insight, he equips individuals, couples, and leaders to build stronger lives—God’s way.
Dennis Nickens, widely known as Spiritual Romeo, is a relationship consultant, author, speaker, and certified DISC practitioner with a passion for helping people discover their identity, walk in purpose, and build relationships that last. With a bold voice and a heart rooted in faith, Dennis empowers individuals and couples to navigate life’s challenges with clarity, conviction, and emotional intelligence. A U.S. military veteran and former federal professional, Dennis brings discipline, leadership, and lived experience into every message he shares—whether through books, workshops, podcast episodes, or one-on-one consultations. His writing speaks directly to the soul: raw, relevant, and rooted in biblical truth. Dennis is the author of several transformational books, including Unbroken Vows: Keeping It Together, Raising Kings: A Father’s Guide to Nurturing Sons, Singlehood: It’s OK to Be Selfish, Stepping Up: Leadership Principles for Today’s Challenges, and Doing It God’s Way. Each book reflects his mission to help others grow in faith, relationships, identity, and leadership. When he’s not writing or consulting, Dennis is mentoring, podcasting, or building a brand that empowering. Whether you're single, married, parenting, or leading, Dennis Nickens is here to help you become who you were called to be.
