Identifying The Red Flags In Men
by kingsley Akonwie
Before the tears. Before the confusion. Before the heartbreak, there were signs. Maybe you saw them, maybe you felt them deep in your spirit… but like so many women, you wanted to believe the best. You stayed. You hoped. You prayed. And somewhere in the process, you lost pieces of yourself. Before the Heartbreak: Identifying the Red Flags in Men is the life-giving guide every woman needs before giving her heart away. It’s the voice of wisdom you wish you had before the gaslighting, the emotional rollercoasters, and the slow erosion of your peace.
This book speaks to the woman who’s loved hard, stayed too long, or believed that love meant enduring pain. It tenderly unpacks the hidden red flags most women overlook—emotional immaturity, spiritual manipulation, charm without character—and equips you to discern the difference between potential and patterns, chemistry and compatibility. With raw honesty, biblical truth, and soul-stirring insight, Before the Heartbreak will help you trust your intuition, honor your worth, and finally stop falling for the same type of man in a different body.
This isn’t just about identifying toxic traits, it’s about reclaiming you. Your joy. Your clarity. Your God-given discernment. You don’t need another heartbreak to learn the lesson. This time, you’ll see the signs. And this time, you’ll choose wisely. Before you fall in love again… fall into truth.
“Information equips you. Experience repairs what information could have prevented.”
kingsley Akonwie
EDUCATE-EMPOWER-ENTERTAIN
Kingsley Akonwie is a visionary leader driven by purpose and a deep commitment to making a lasting difference. His influence spans corporate strategy, creative innovation, leadership development, faith based transformation, humanitarian impact, and national development. As the CEO of Akonwie Equities International Inc. and Chairman of Purpose Wealth Group www.purposewealthgroup.com , Kingsley oversees a diverse portfolio of businesses, guiding them with strategic foresight, operational excellence, and a results driven approach that creates sustainable growth and long term value. Beyond the corporate sphere, Kingsley is the Founding Pastor of Heart of Compassion Ministries www.heartofcompassionministries.com , a faith based organization that serves as an umbrella for six distinct ministries. Among them is NALAH Life Ministries www.analahlife.com , a healing focused platform dedicated to supporting women navigating recovery from broken relationships, domestic violence, and divorce. Through teaching, resources, and compassionate leadership, Kingsley is deeply invested in restoring hope, identity, and purpose to individuals and families. Kingsley is also a founding member and National Chairman of the Freedom and Economic Movement www.freedem.com , a political and civic movement committed to economic empowerment, good governance, and transformational leadership. As part of this mission, he is the Presidential Candidate for Cameroon 2032, presenting a bold vision centered on unity, opportunity, integrity, and sustainable national progress. More than a strategist, Kingsley is a trusted advisor and mentor, helping executives, organizations, and communities around the world unlock potential, expand influence, and spark meaningful transformation both professionally and personally. His creativity runs deep. Through songwriting, screenwriting, and powerful content creation, he uses storytelling to connect cultures, inspire faith, and communicate truth with clarity and impact. As an author, Kingsley writes on self development, marriage, manhood, leadership, and children’s literature. His work blends practical wisdom with lived experience, delivering clear and actionable insights that empower readers to grow, overcome challenges, and live with intention, while also nurturing the next generation through uplifting and purpose driven stories. In every setting whether the boardroom, the pulpit, a keynote stage, or the pages of a book, Kingsley’s work is anchored in timeless values of excellence, integrity, faith, and compassion. His legacy is one of impact that transcends industries, borders, and generations. Learn more at www.kingsleyakonwie.com .