Fight for Your Freedom or Die Trying

No-one is coming to f*cking save you


Our addiction to drama leaves us vulnerable. We are distracted, unhealthy and we’re industrialised slaves.

Our addiction to drama is why we are so easily manipulated and controlled by far-right-wing extremists, as some would prefer to call them instead of ‘fascists’. They promise us salvation when all they’re really interested in is profits for the billionaires.

No-one is coming to fight for our freedom from the algorithms and AI in social media that the billionaires use to control us and keep us locked into our addiction to drama.

“Work will set us free” is the fascist message that is written on the sign above the gates of Auschwitz. Our healthcare insurance has now become the true inheritance of that message. We work until the AI decides it's time for us to die based on the profit for the billionaires.

We have to fight for our freedom and outwit our addiction to drama. And, I hear you say, “So f*cking what? What are the real tangible benefits? Is this going to get me rich? Is this going to get me the man/woman of my dreams? Is this going to help me live forever?"

That is your addiction to drama doing the talking and your fears that have you trapped there. You have to choose to save yourself first, like I did. I fought to outwit my addiction to drama - the dragon in my DNA. And you can do that too.

Fight for your freedom from addiction to drama or die trying. Because no-one is coming to f*cking save you.

The prize of outwitting our addiction to drama is freedom.

My name is Justin Lodge, and when I first started to write, I thought that if I could stop one man from harming someone else or himself then it would have been all worthwhile.  I almost died twice trying to sacrifice myself to save my first wife, and I had no idea why I was doing it.

I didn’t know then that I had inherited my addiction to drama in my DNA, and that my childhood scolding had programmed me to hate myself.

I had to learn to outwit my addiction to drama, and release my guilt and shame. It was not overnight success - it’s taken me five years to learn how to get out of my own way and love myself.

It is not too late for you to get started to do the same, and to upgrade your emotional intelligence and social intelligence.

I’m an emotional intelligence guide, a best-selling author, public speaker and a conscious leader.

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Making Darkness Visible

Get your shit sorted out and create delicious adventures


When we make our darkness visible, we gain the gifts of strength, courage, power, heart, voice, vision and spirit.

These are the outcomes from getting our shit sorted out, and clears the space for us to create lives of delicious adventure.

I almost died twice trying to sacrifice myself to save my wife, and I had no idea why I was doing it. But I didn’t want to see someone else doing the same.

When I first began to write in 2017, I thought that if I could save one man from hurting himself or someone else then it would all be worthwhile. It was only when I decided to write a book in a week in 2020 that I realised that I was writing because of my love for my grandmother.

My grandmother was a refugee in a foreign land, and she overcame the famine and war that left her emotionally crippled. Despite her emotional wounds, she created a legacy of life force, money, and power for which I shall be forever grateful.

In my marriage, I had been projecting that love for my grandmother and my own desire to save my grandmother from her anger onto my marriage. I saw her immense sacrifice for family, and I unconsciously copied her example to the point that it almost killed me, because the women I chose to be in relationship with did not have the same value for family that she had.

And here I am with my fourth book “Making Darkness Visible”, living a life of delicious adventure.

This book is written from the heart because my grandmother would expect nothing less after she risked her life and sacrificed her own heart to create the privileges of opportunity for the family.

Making our unconscious darkness visible is the “difference that makes a difference” in our personal growth and leadership.

This book tells the stories how I and my clients got our shit sorted out and how we created lives of delicious adventure.

How we found strength, power, heart and courage to take our lives to the next level by making our darkness visible.

My clients are travelling the world with infants, running multiple businesses, investing in property and having the delicious adventures that they have been craving for years.

It is time.

It is time to start taking full responsibility for our emotional wellbeing by making our own darkness visible.

The problem today is that
- Professionals and entrepreneurs do not have safe spaces to learn and grow.
- They don’t have healthy masculine energy to hold the space for this growth.
- They feel like there is a glass ceiling holding them back and they are tired and exhausted from pushing themselves hard.
- They want to take their life to the next level in business and personal relationships.
- But they also know that if they keep going the way they have been then they’re going to burn out.
- They want to get their shit sorted out and they don’t have time to waste.

When we choose to become people who intentionally create our own lives, we get to experience deep fulfilment, find amazing love and human connection, and create the wealth of our dreams. Then we are truly honouring the privilege that cost the hearts and lives of our ancestors going back generations. If getting your shit sorted out and creating a life of delicious adventure is what you’re looking for, then this book is for you.

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I'm F*cking Done

Navigate the storm of divorce. Find your way home and thrive.


Emerging from divorce with your soul & sanity intact. The point when we first realise “I’m done with this” is overwhelming.

I’ve been divorced twice now. I’m a divorce serial offender. And, I’ve made every mistake there is to make in the process. And it might not feel like it right now, but it absolutely is possible to emerge from a divorce with your soul and sanity intact. Even when it feels like it’s not possible! I want to assure you, it really is.

This book has a specific action plan of what to do, and what not to do, when preparing for divorce. BUT more importantly this book will teach you how to find your way home and thrive. It will show you:
- How to get a new perspective on our blind-spots;
- Why we can gain from understanding our unconscious limiting beliefs;
- How unlocking our unconscious is the key to safely navigating the storm of divorce; and,
- What actions we can take to get the right kind of help and support, rather than the wrong kind.

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A Rescuer in Recovery

No-one is coming to f*cking save you


I was a rescuer for 47 years. I spent those years ignoring my own problems and trying to rescue everyone else. I had been socially programmed to be a rescuer by my family. Rescuing was part of my family-culture and ran through our DNA going back at least four generations. My grandfathers were rescuers too, and like me, their rescuing behaviours destroyed relationships and cost lives. My rescuing behaviours cost me two marriages, both ending in divorce, and left me burned-out and broke without food for my children on Christmas Eve.

This is my story about how I chose to rescue myself first, break free of social conditioning and became a rescuer-in-recovery. I went from being burned-out and broke to living a thriving new life, writing a number one Amazon best seller and stepping into my own self-sovereign power.

This book will show you:
- The path to rescue yourself first and how we can get a new perspective on our blind spots and find the gold in them
- Why we can gain from understanding our limiting beliefs installed in childhood
- How unlocking our unconscious is the key to becoming a rescuer-in-recovery
- What actions we can take to get the right kind of help that sets us up to build a new thriving life.

I help strong men and powerful women who have a deep desire to make a positive difference in the world to learn to rescue themselves first, to overcome their unconscious negative self-beliefs, to choose to live a new vibrant life that they love, and to become the person that they were always meant to be.

One of my friends said to me once, “You’re the first coach I’ve met that I don’t want to punch in the face.” She could bench-press close to 100 kilos, so I’m really happy she didn’t. And it is one of my proudest recommendations.

Justin is a best selling author of 5 books, a public speaker, philanthropist and conscious leader. He is a professional emotional intelligence guide. He is passionate about creating insights and transformations for his clients.

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Angry As F*ck

But no idea why?


It’s time to step-up and harness your anger.

They say ignorance is bliss, but it’s not. Wilful ignorance is killing us. It is killing us violently, relentlessly and without mercy.
- Conscious growth is not for the person who believes that the fault lies with someone else and is seeking to shift the blame.
- Conscious growth is not for the person that wants to hide-out and avoid making change.
- Conscious growth is not for the person that believes that they already know all the answers.

What are you going to choose? Are you going to choose intentional conscious growth, or, wilful ignorance? This book is a call to action, to get rid of anger and find your inner peace.

In this book, you will learn:
- Why Justin was emotionally crippled by his family stories of anger, pain and denial
- What he learned to rapidly and effectively get out of the pit of emotional pain
- How he went from burned-out and broke, to living in a new city in a new country working with folks that he likes, trusts and admires in less than six months.

Justin is a Certified Spiral Practitioner and a Certified Master NLP Practitioner, and has some amazing transformational tools that have transformed his life, and they can do that for you too. Find out more at www.justinlodge.com

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