How to pave the way for starting a side project even though you’re constantly overworked and burned out

Time & Energy

by Kristin Parker

The well-meaning advice isn't working. You're still exhausted. What if everything you thought about energy was wrong?
For the perpetually drained parent or caregiver, Time & Energy offers a radical new perspective. Author Kristin Parker understands the unique pressures you face, cutting through the noise with counterintuitive truths and actionable strategies that truly fit your demanding life.
Inside, you’ll uncover:
• The hidden "energy paradox" that turns small efforts into significant gains.
• How strategic, slow movements and intuitive fuel choices can unlock immediate vitality.
• Surprising insights into sleep cycles and the power of micro-naps.
• A practical guide to mapping and managing external energy vampires—including the ones you never considered.
• The unseen forces of self-sabotage and your personalized blueprint for breaking free.
This isn't another impossible self-help book. It's an honest, empowering guide to cultivating genuine energy, peace, and purpose, even in the busiest of lives. It’s time to stop surviving and start reclaiming your true potential.

About The Book

Stop surviving. Start thriving. It's time to build a life that truly energizes you.
Who This Book Is For:
This book is specifically for the chronically overwhelmed caregiver—primarily parents, but also anyone dedicating significant energy to caring for others—who feels perpetually drained, guilty about prioritizing their own needs, and skeptical of typical self-improvement advice that doesn't fit their demanding reality. If you're tired of being told to "do more" or "find more time" when you have none left, and you long for a practical, empathetic path to genuine energy, this book is for you.
What This Book Is About:
Reclaim Your Energy offers a refreshingly honest and counterintuitive approach to cultivating time and energy in a life overflowing with responsibilities. It moves beyond conventional "self-care" and delves into the psychological and practical shifts necessary to transform chronic exhaustion into sustainable vitality. Readers will embark on a journey to understand their unique "energy landscape" and discover actionable strategies for:
* The Energy Paradox: Learning how small, consistent investments of energy paradoxically generate much more in return.
* Optimized Rest: Hacking sleep patterns and leveraging strategic naps for deeper, more restorative rest, even with limited hours.
* Mindful Fuel: Making conscious dietary choices that genuinely energize the body and mind, breaking free from unhelpful eating habits.
* Strategic Movement: Integrating simple, gentle movement and stretching into even the busiest days to boost physical and mental well-being.
* Navigating External Influences: Identifying and managing "energy vampires"—people, activities, and even indirect interactions—to protect and expand personal resources.
* Breaking Self-Sabotage: Uncovering the hidden psychological reasons why we retreat from success and developing a blueprint to push through those barriers.
* Building Your Green Flag Project: Identifying and strategically pursuing a passion project that not only energizes the soul but also holds the potential for financial gain, alleviating common caregiver burdens.
Why People Should Read It:
If you're a drained caregiver, this book offers not just advice, but permission. Permission to be gentle with yourself, to start small, to challenge unrealistic expectations, and to finally claim the time and energy you deserve. It’s a roadmap for transforming overwhelm into empowerment, enabling you to be more present, effective, and fulfilled in all aspects of your life, without adding more to your already overflowing plate. Readers will find themselves nodding in recognition, feeling understood, and, most importantly, equipped with a genuinely workable plan.
What Makes It Stand Out Against Other Self-Improvement Books:
* Radical Empathy & Relatability: Written by someone who deeply understands the caregiver's unique struggles, the book avoids generic, guilt-inducing advice, offering strategies specifically tailored for severely time- and energy-constrained individuals.
* Counterintuitive & Actionable: It challenges common self-help tropes ("just push through," "wake up earlier") with nuanced, effective strategies that focus on creating energy from unexpected sources and integrating change into existing demanding routines.
* Focus on the "Smallest Possible Effort": Unlike books that demand grand gestures, this approach emphasizes tiny, sustainable shifts that build momentum without adding to the reader's overwhelm.
* Holistic Yet Practical: It addresses energy from multiple angles—physical, mental, emotional, and social—but always grounds solutions in real-world, accessible steps rather than abstract theories.
* Permission-Driven: It actively dismantles caregiver guilt, giving readers explicit permission to prioritize their well-being as a necessary foundation for effective caregiving.
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I’m a novelist and lyricist currently based in Germany. I’m helping drained parents and caregivers reconnect with themselves and enlarge their potential no matter how full their lives are. I also write future fiction and literary fiction, sometimes inspired by events of my own life as a mom of three, including a little one with special needs. My work features strong-willed and multi-faceted female lead characters.

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