In Cracking the Rich Code Vol. 18, I join over 20 elite entrepreneurs and thought leaders to share the deeper truths behind sustainable, high-level success. Endorsed by #1 best-selling author Tony Robbins, this volume dives into the identity shifts that spark real transformation in life and business.

In my chapter, ‘Unleashed: Five Keys to Mastering Yourself,’ I reveal a truth many high achievers hesitate to admit: the relentless need for control. This tendency often presents itself as high standards or perfectionism, but beneath the surface lies a fear of vulnerability and a sense of unworthiness.

For years, I believed that if I managed everything—my schedule, my achievements, my relationships—I would find security and peace. But I discovered that this obsession with control was rooted in my insecurities. The fear of letting go was paralyzing until a pivotal moment forced me to confront it. That’s when I realized that releasing control didn’t mean losing my edge; it was the key to reclaiming my true power.

Through my personal journey, I reveal how my inner transformation freed me from the exhausting cycle of proving and perfectionism. I share the strategies that helped me gain clarity and confidence, ultimately transforming my relationship with myself. This journey taught me that true strength comes from embracing our vulnerabilities and learning to trust ourselves. When we do this, we can create a more fulfilling and meaningful life.