Mike Hill
We fight together, not each other.
by Mike Hill
A battle plan for couples under spiritual attack
Most couples are fighting the wrong enemy.
They're exhausted, frustrated, and on the verge of giving up—not because their marriage is irredeemable, but because they've been attacking each other when they should be fighting together.
In the movie The Untouchables, Sean Connery's character, Jimmy Malone, advises Eliot Ness on how to deal with Al Capone's gang in Chicago. He says, “You wanna know how to get Capone? They pull a knife; you pull a gun. That's the Chicago way!"
Now, I'm not advocating violence here—stay with me. But there's a principle in that line: Don't show up to battle unprepared. Don't bring inadequate weapons. Don't fight alone when you could fight with superior firepower.
The Question: "Why would ANYONE bring a knife to a gunfight? That's foolish, right? You'd be outmatched, outgunned, outpowered."
The Parallel: "Yet that's exactly what many of us do in our marriages. We face spiritual battles—attacks on our unity, our intimacy, our commitment—and we show up with individual armor, fighting individual battles, when God intended us to fight TOGETHER, as a unified force."
This book is about the Armor of God—but not the way you've heard it before. Not just as individuals, but as COUPLES. Because when you combine your armor with your spouse's armor, you don't just double your strength, you become exponentially more powerful."
Marriage Pastor
Mike Hill has served in pastoral ministry for over 40 years, with a special focus on marriage and family ministry for the past 20 years. As Marriage Pastor at Beltway Park Church in Abilene, Texas, he has counseled hundreds of couples and leads the church’s re|engage marriage ministry. Married to his wife Marsha for nearly 50 years, Mike knows firsthand that strong marriages don’t happen by accident—they’re built by couples who learn to fight TOGETHER against the real enemy, not against each other. Mike and Marsha have two married children and seven grandchildren. When he’s not counseling couples or teaching, Mike enjoys investing in his grandkids, tackling house projects with Marsha, and occasionally squeezing in a round of golf.
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Most couples are fighting the wrong enemy.