One Mother’s Journey from Crisis to Resilience in Neurodivergent Parenting
by Gabriela Lavezzari
This is a raw honest memoir about the marathons of parenting a neurodivergent child. The author chronicles her journey from that first morning when her seven-year-old forgot her shoes to navigate ADHD, ODD, depression, anxiety, and autism diagnosis and the crisis moments the test every limit.
Written with unflinching honesty about isolation, guilt and emotional numbness that can consume special needs parents, the book reframes this experience as a marathon requiring a different strategy than typical parenting challenges. Through personal crisis and recovery, the author discovers the importance of “aid stations”- the support systems, self-care practices and tribe connection essential for going the distance.
This is not an inspirational story with a neat resolution but a realistic guide for parents learning to survive and thrive in the long-term reality of special needs parenting.
Gabriela is a parent, advocate, youth mental first aid instructor and certified coach specializing in supporting families navigating neurodivergence and mental health challenges. Drawing from her personal experience raising a daughter with multiple diagnoses, she combines honest storytelling with practical strategies to help parents move from survival mode to empowered advocacy. She lives in New England with her family and believes in reducing stigma through authentic conversation.