Nick I. Gonzalez
I Don't Want to Be a Caregiver. I Just Want to Be Her Husband.
by Nick I. Gonzalez, M. Div.
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You didn't sign up for this. You just wanted to love your spouse, and somewhere along the way the role changed under you.
Nick Gonzalez knows that feeling from the inside. When his wife, Marisol, was diagnosed with early-onset Alzheimer's at 55, he didn't get a warning or a roadmap. He got nine years of learning as he went, the hard way, one doctor's appointment and one hard night at a time.
This book is what he wishes someone had handed him on day one: nine chapters, one for each year, telling the full story of caregiving, grief, faith, and love.
In it, you'll learn how to:
✅ Navigate Medicare, SSDI, home health care, and caregiver grants, so you're not starting from zero
✅ Recognize and avoid the twelve paths to caregiver burnout before they take you down
✅ Follow a clear roadmap for what to expect next, so you're not searching for answers at 2 a.m.
✅ Turn private struggle into shared conversation, with discussion questions built into every chapter
✅ Hold onto your faith across nine years of caregiving, grief, and love, even on the days it doesn't feel like holding
If you're caring for a spouse with Alzheimer's or another form of dementia, and some days you're barely holding on yourself, this book won't hand you easy promises that it's all going to be okay. It'll give you a Christian perspective grounded in truth, the practical footing you need, and the reminder that you're not alone in it.
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Publication Date: August 31, 2026
Publisher: Thrive Now Publishing
ISBN-13: 979-8-9930703-3-9
Size: 6" x 9"
Pages: 232
“The author of 'My Life as a New Caregiver' is very transparent and honest. This book will give caregivers guidance and help them understand they are not alone. This book will also provide insight to non-caregivers. I recommend this book, especially if you are a caregiver or want to help people who are.”
Ada V.
“This is a must-have book for caregivers! You are not alone; there are support groups and suggestions for taking time for yourself and making your life and your loved ones' lives count. God bless you for everything you do!”
S. Lopez
“A must-read for everyone... It blessed my soul. There can be love and devotion alongside exhaustion, grief, frustration, and pain, and the genuineness of the author's story gives caregivers permission to acknowledge those complicated realities without loving the person any less.”
Mike Moreno
Equipping people to thrive in marriage, faith, and life's hardest seasons.
Nick Gonzalez is a licensed minister, author, and devoted family man who has walked two roads many people don't expect to walk together: building a thriving marriage and becoming a caregiver for the wife he built it with. He serves as Director of Victory Outreach Bible College and has been married to Marisol for 36 years, serving as her primary caregiver since her early-onset Alzheimer's diagnosis. Together they've raised four children and now cherish seven grandchildren. Drawing on decades of ministry experience and a Master of Divinity, Nick writes and speaks with the same honesty in both seasons: the joy of building a marriage and the hard, sacred work of caring for the person you built it with. Learn more and find his books and resources at nickgonzalez.com.
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