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When the Skatepark Becomes the Therapy Room

Skate Therapy

by Candice Hamilton-Miller, RP

"What do all the kids at the skate park know about courage, failure, and getting back up that most of us spend our entire lives trying to figure out?

Skate Therapy is a framework, a metaphor, and a practice — three things at once — for using skateboarding's embodied philosophy in clinical and educational work. Drawing on exposure work, narrative therapy, somatic approaches, cognitive-behavioral methods, polyvagal theory, attachment theory, and the research on play, mastery, and identity, this book takes seriously what skate culture has been teaching its kids implicitly for sixty years: that fear is information, that the ground is safety, that you act before you feel ready, that the basics are the destination, and that you do not regulate yourself — you regulate yourself through other people.

Each chapter pairs a principle from skate culture with the therapeutic concept that lives underneath it, grounded in research and in the lived practice of two composite teenagers — Adam, who cannot drop in, and Quinn, who cannot fill out the scholarship application — who teach each other across a single summer what an entire field has been trying to articulate for a century.

For clinicians, parents, teachers, coaches, and anyone who has ever been stuck at the top of their own bowl. The work is already happening. Everything you need is already under the wheels of your board.

Here, you try again."

About The Book

"What do all the kids at the skate park know about courage, failure, and getting back up that most of us spend our entire lives trying to figure out?

Skate Therapy is a framework, a metaphor, and a practice — three things at once — for using skateboarding's embodied philosophy in clinical and educational work. Drawing on exposure work, narrative therapy, somatic approaches, cognitive-behavioral methods, polyvagal theory, attachment theory, and the research on play, mastery, and identity, this book takes seriously what skate culture has been teaching its kids implicitly for sixty years: that fear is information, that the ground is safety, that you act before you feel ready, that the basics are the destination, and that you do not regulate yourself — you regulate yourself through other people.

Each chapter pairs a principle from skate culture with the therapeutic concept that lives underneath it, grounded in research and in the lived practice of two composite teenagers — Adam, who cannot drop in, and Quinn, who cannot fill out the scholarship application — who teach each other across a single summer what an entire field has been trying to articulate for a century.

For clinicians, parents, teachers, coaches, and anyone who has ever been stuck at the top of their own bowl. The work is already happening. Everything you need is already under the wheels of your board.

Here, you try again."

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From insight to intention to change.

Candice is a seasoned psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, and educator with nearly three decades of experience supporting clients across the lifespan—from young children to older adults navigating complex life transitions. Her work has spanned schools, hospitals, community settings, and private practice, giving her a deeply integrated and practical understanding of mental health care. Known for her grounded, human approach to therapy, Candice blends clinical expertise with lived experience, emphasizing presence, curiosity, and authentic connection over rigid adherence to any single modality. Her work is rooted in ethical, client-centered care and an intentionally eclectic framework that adapts to the unique needs of each individual. In addition to her clinical work, Candice has spent years supervising and mentoring therapists at all stages of their careers. Through this work, she recognized a gap between what therapists are taught in formal training and what they actually need in the therapy room. This insight became the foundation for her writing. Candice is the author of The Tiny Training for Therapists Series, along with a growing collection of clinical training resources designed to support therapists in building practical, ethical, and confident practices. She also writes a wide range of accessible mental health resources for clients of all ages, translating therapeutic concepts into language that is clear, relatable, and usable in everyday life. Her work is not intended to prescribe one “right” way to practice, but to offer a flexible, experience-based toolbox—bridging the gap between theory and real-world clinical work. Through her practice, CHM Therapy Services, as well as her online platform for clients, called Mindful Humans Studio, and clinical online platform, The Therapist Circle, Candice continues to work closely with both clients and therapists, with a focus on developing skilled, self-aware practitioners and creating resources that make therapy more accessible, human, and effective for everyone.

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