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How I fell in love with my neurodivergent maverick mind

Demons to Champions

by Gary Coulton

An Unforgettable Neurodivergent Journey

If your brain never hits pause. If thoughts stampede at 3:30 a.m. If people labelled you “too much,” “too intense,” “too odd,” or “not enough,” then you already know the lonely exhaustion of living out of step with the world. You’ve chased success, pushed through burnout, hidden behind masks, and still wondered: What’s wrong with me?

This book is here to tell you: There is nothing wrong with you!

From Demons to Champions is Gary Coulton’s unflinching, often funny, and deeply human memoir of discovering, aged sixty-five, that he was not broken but neurodivergent: autistic and ADHD. It’s the story of a lifetime spent wrestling with an unruly mind, and the hard-won triumph of learning to love it.

A high-performing academic, business owner, and inventor, Gary was praised for his rapid-fire thinking, curiosity, and drive. Yet he lived with constant doubt, overwhelm, and exhaustion. He was the “weird kid who never knew when to shut up,” who became the restless adult who couldn’t switch off. Life finally forced him to stop running and ask the question: What if the very things that held me back were the keys to moving forward?

What follows is a candid journey through awkward classrooms, buzzing laboratories, start-up boardrooms, and quiet therapy rooms. Gary shares the chaos and breakthroughs: the social anxiety, perfectionism, and people-pleasing that drained him; the moments of despair that nearly silenced him; and the turning points where insight, humour, and stubborn persistence rebuilt him.

This isn’t a neat cure or a glossy success story. It’s something more real: a model for living well with the brain you have. Through mindfulness, reflection, and living by core values, Gary shows how he transformed his “Demons” into allies: designing daily habits to calm the noise, protect energy, and open space for creativity, purpose, and connection.

Alongside the memoir, you’ll find bite-sized tools that worked in his life:
• Value-mapping and decision rules to quiet indecision and regret.
• Sensory hygiene and micro-routines that turn spirals into momentum.
• Scripts for difficult conversations that reduce friction and guilt.
• Meeting and email tactics that make workplaces more bearable for fast thinkers.
• Grounding and breathwork practices that soothe racing thoughts in the moment.

Gary writes with warmth, wit, and radical honesty. He blends lived experience with a scientist’s lens, making sense of neurodivergence in plain English. From childhood misfires to career near misses, from laughter to suicidal lows, his story is one of resilience, humour, and, ultimately, self-compassion.

Who This Book Is For
• Adults discovering late in life they’re autistic, ADHD, or simply wired differently.
• Professionals, founders, and high achievers who succeed on the outside but burn out inside.
• Parents, partners, teachers, and coaches who want to understand and support neurodivergent minds.
• Allies seeking practical ways to connect and communicate with fast, non-linear thinkers.

Why You Need This Book
• To see your lived experience reflected honestly—without pity, clichés, or platitudes.
• To learn practical ways to reduce overwhelm and reclaim focus.
• To discover scripts and tools making work, relationships, and everyday life easier.
• To find hope that is earned, not borrowed: proof that it’s never too late to discover who you really are.

Demons to Champions is a permission slip to stop fighting yourself, start understanding yourself, and finally build a life that fits.

If you, or someone you love, has ever felt like a brilliant engine running on the wrong fuel, this book will help you name the engine, choose the right fuel, and set a course that finally feels like yours.

What readers are saying

“A thoroughly enjoyable read - gave me so much food for thought. The curiosity, the bewilderment, the compassion, the despair, and the courage in navigating the trials and tribulations of youth, the coming of age, and growing in wisdom, it was all a compelling tale. ”

— Santhini Kumaran

“As a fellow Neurospicy soul and a weary traveller through a world not built for diverse minds, this book resonated. Gary tells an authentic, raw and honest account of his journey and paints a picture of life on the spectrum, the extreme highs and lows. This is a real account of lived experience told in a humble way that aims to educate, empower and support. ”

— Mike Bedford

“It’s a book that’s going to stay with me for a long time. The floating dream witnessing your own birth was also a wow moment - I keep thinking about it. I couldn't put it down - a compelling read, a beautifully written book which made me laugh and cry. Susannah Shepherd ”

— Susannah Shepherd