A funny, heartfelt look at neurodivergent life, self-acceptance, and what happens when you stop trying to squeeze yourself into spaces you were never meant to fit.
Ever feel like you're the square peg in a world full of perfectly round holes? Like everyone got a life manual except you, and you're left wondering why fitting in feels like trying to shove a watermelon into a mailbox?
Welcome. You've found your people.
In Square Peg Round Hole, Beenie Mann shares the funny, messy, frustrating, and unexpectedly beautiful reality of navigating a world that wasn't exactly designed for neurodivergent humans.
Through personal stories, sharp humor, and unapologetic honesty, Beenie explores ADHD, Autism, chronic illness, relationships, self-acceptance, masking, overthinking, and those wonderfully awkward moments that make you wonder whether everyone else secretly attended an orientation you somehow missed.
This isn't another guide to becoming more "normal." Normal is overrated - and pretending to be someone you're not is exhausting.
Instead, Square Peg Round Hole is an invitation to look differently at the very things you may have spent years trying to fix, hide, explain, or apologize for.
Inside, you'll find hilarious real-life stories, relatable observations, practical perspective shifts, and reminders that fitting in and belonging are not the same thing.
Whether you're neurodivergent yourself, love someone who is, or have simply spent your life feeling a little out of step with everyone around you, this book offers something far more useful than another set of instructions for fitting in:
Permission to stop trying.
Because maybe the problem was never that you were a square peg.
Maybe you were simply never meant for the round hole.
“Reading Square Peg Round Hole felt like sitting down for a soul-to-soul chat with someone who just gets it. Beenie Mann—my beloved Sabine—has poured her heart, humor, and hard-earned wisdom into every page. This isn't just a book; it's a celebration of the wonderfully unconventional journey of a neurodivergent soul navigating life, love, and laughter with grace, grit, and unapologetic honesty. Beenie masterfully weaves personal stories with insights on ADHD, Autism, MS, and Lipedema in a way that's raw, relatable, and refreshingly real. Her voice dances between vulnerability and empowerment, reminding us that our differences are not just valid—they're beautiful. What struck me most is the sense of permission the book gives: permission to feel deeply, to rest when needed, to laugh at the absurdity of life, and to proudly take up space as we are. For anyone who has ever felt like the "wrong shape" in a rigid world, this book is a soft place to land—and a rallying cry to rise. Sabine, I couldn’t be prouder. Your courage is contagious. Thank you for lighting the path for so many who’ve felt lost in the dark. This book is medicine for the soul—and a must-read for anyone ready to embrace their true self, neuro-spice and all.”
“This book is a great read for all. Whether you know someone who is experiencing what the author is , work with people who are neurodivergent or are just trying to understand the people around you, this is the book for you. Beenie lets you into her world with honesty, humor and a desire to help all. Anyone who reads this book will be able to relate in some way.”