Turn Anger into power, control the flame before it controls you
by Aaron B. Kershaw
Anger isn’t the problem. It’s what you do with it.
Mastering the Fire is Book 2 in the Built from the Inside series—a trauma-informed, SEL-based guide for justice-impacted individuals and anyone working to control emotional reactions that keep them trapped. This book isn’t about pretending you’re not angry. It’s about learning to direct that fire before it burns your progress down.
If you’ve ever exploded when you meant to stay calm—or shut down completely because you couldn’t trust yourself to speak—this is the blueprint to regain control. Built for real-life pressure, this guide shows how emotional mastery becomes the foundation for leadership, peace, and long-term freedom.
Inside you’ll learn:
The truth about triggers—and how to spot them before they explode
What your nervous system does under stress (and how to reset it)
The difference between controlled power and destructive rage
How to build your own fire ritual—a grounding practice for high-stress moments
The emotional reset tools used in trauma recovery, prison reform, and leadership training
Each chapter includes:
Raw stories and real-world examples
3 practical lessons
A grounded tool like the “Trigger Journal” or “Fire Reset Script”
Exercises and reflections
A Capstone Project: Your Fire Control Plan
This isn’t about being passive. It’s about power.
When you learn to control your fire, nobody else can control you.
I’m a Marine veteran, author, and the founder of BrightPath Academy and BuildingBlocs Literacy. I create tools for real-life transformation—books, courses, and curriculum for people rebuilding from the inside out. If you're ready to grow, heal, and lead yourself forward, I’ve got your back.
Aaron B. Kershaw is the founder of BrightPath Academy and BuildingBlocs Literacy, two education platforms built to deliver practical transformation through social-emotional learning, financial literacy, leadership, and reentry training. His programs are used in correctional facilities, schools, churches, and community centers across the country. A U.S. Marine Corps veteran and lifelong mentor, Aaron writes for people who weren’t handed a perfect start—and are ready to build something better anyway. From the Built from the Inside SEL series to financial education workbooks and youth development guides, his voice stays honest, grounded, and rooted in lived experience. Aaron’s mission is clear: To help people take back the pen and write their next chapter—stronger, smarter, and more self-led than the last. Through his books, courses, and nonprofit initiatives, Aaron empowers individuals and institutions to do more than survive their circumstances—he helps them build from them.
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