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by Jody N Holland, M.S. Psychology

Lead Yourself First

The Self-Leadership Blueprint to Own Your Mindset, Lead on Purpose, and Build Your Future

About the Book

Lead Yourself First

Most people spend their whole lives waiting — for the economy to turn, for the right break, for someone to finally recognize what they're worth. Lead Yourself First is for the ones who are done waiting.

Leadership strategist Jody Holland has spent more than twenty years helping entrepreneurs, executives, and teams unlock their potential. What he's learned is that leadership doesn't start with a title, a team, or a strategy. It starts with you. Before you can lead anyone else, you have to master the person in the mirror.

At the heart of the book is Jody's S-3 framework — Strategy, Systems, and Shifts. Your strategy is what you do. But your strategy can never rise above your systems — the beliefs running quietly in the background that decide what you think is possible. And those systems only change when you make a shift. Shift the belief, rebuild the system, and free the strategy. That one loop runs through every chapter of the book.

Along the way, you'll get a toolbox of practical, memorable models you can apply immediately:

The Baseball Diamond — how to order your goals (psychological, physical, personal, professional) so you stay centered while you climb.
TARGET — a six-step model for hitting any goal you set.
BANDITS — the seven time thieves quietly stealing your success, and how to eliminate them.
MOJO, HIT, and ACT — simple frameworks for energy, mindset, and taking action even when you don't feel like it.
The Law of Compensation — the honest question behind every goal: What am I willing to give to get what I want?

You'll write your own future in present tense, break up with the version of you that's holding you back, build a culture worth belonging to, and learn to stop giving 110% so you can start giving your best.

Honest, funny, and relentlessly practical, Lead Yourself First is the self-leadership blueprint for anyone ready to stop drifting and start building.

The climb never ends. Let's begin.

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Jod’s books challenge you to confront what’s holding you back, take ownership of your growth, and step boldly into the leader—and life—you were created to become.

Jody N. Holland is an author, leadership strategist, and executive coach who has spent more than two decades helping individuals and organizations break through limitations and lead with clarity, confidence, and purpose. His work focuses on the human side of success—how mindset, personal responsibility, and intentional leadership shape outcomes in business and in life.

Drawing from real-world leadership experience, behavioral science, and timeless principles of personal growth, Jody writes with a rare blend of practicality and inspiration. His books challenge readers to confront internal barriers, take ownership of their development, and step into the best version of themselves—both professionally and personally.

Jody is the founder of Jody Holland, Inc., where he works with leaders at every level—from first-time supervisors to senior executives—guiding them to build strong cultures, develop people, and drive sustainable results. His approach emphasizes growth through challenge, accountability, and purpose rather than comfort or complacency.

Through his writing, speaking, and coaching, Jody is committed to helping people move beyond fear, confusion, and self-doubt toward lives marked by intentional action and meaningful impact.

He lives in Texas with his family and continues to write, teach, and coach with one central message: Become The Leader You Would Follow.

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